On her own! January Jones welcomed her son, Xander, in September 2011 and has been candid about the ups and downs of raising him alone.
The Mad Men alum announced her pregnancy five months ahead of Xander’s arrival, choosing not to reveal the paternity of her baby-to-be. The AMC show’s creator, Matthew Weiner, subsequently told Us Weekly exclusively that Jones wanted a baby “very badly.”
The writer, 56, said at the time: “She’s got a big heart and she’s been talking about having children since I met her, which is not always common with actresses. I think she’s going to be amazing.”
After Xander’s arrival, the South Dakota native remained tight-lipped about her baby boy’s father. Jones told The New York Times in 2013 that the information was only her “son’s business,” explaining, “Jack Nicholson once told me: ‘You should never give your personal life away, otherwise people will pick you apart. They’ll never believe in your character.’”
The Golden Globe nominee, who previously dated Ashton Kutcher in the late 1990s and Josh Groban from 2003 to 2006, told Red magazine in January 2017 that she plays both “good cop” and “bad cop” with her child.
“I don’t want to be bad cop. But to have his respect, I have to be both,” the actress explained at the time. “I mean, I’m an emotionally immature person. I’m an actor for God’s sake. I see myself behaving like a child all the time.”
She told The Edit the following year that it was important to keep that part of her life “private,” adding, “When I was starting out, other actors advised me to keep certain things close to the vest. When you become a public figure people want to know everything about you, and then [they] pick it apart — it becomes negative. When my son asks those questions, I want him to [hear it from me]. I don’t want him to be able to Google it. … It’s just not something the public needs to know. I don’t divulge my sexual preferences.”
So far, the little one “does not give a s–t” about his mom’s fame, Jones hilariously told Us in November 2019 — unless it “works to his advantage.”
The former model said, “We were at Disneyland the other day and we’re waiting in line for like 50 minutes, and he’s like, ‘Mom! Can you get fast passes and tell everyone you’re an actress?’ I was like, ‘No! This is the deal. This is what it’s like.’ It’s part of the experience. We gotta talk. We gotta hang out.”
Keep scrolling to see what Jones has said over the years about raising Xander, from parenthood’s effect on her dating life to the surprising perks of single motherhood.
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January Jones’ Quotes About Being a Single Mom to Son Xander
On her own! January Jones welcomed her son, Xander, in September 2011 and has been candid about the ups and downs of raising him alone.
The Mad Men alum announced her pregnancy five months ahead of Xander’s arrival, choosing not to reveal the paternity of her baby-to-be. The AMC show’s creator, Matthew Weiner, subsequently told Us Weekly exclusively that Jones wanted a baby “very badly.”
The writer, 56, said at the time: “She’s got a big heart and she’s been talking about having children since I met her, which is not always common with actresses. I think she’s going to be amazing.”
After Xander’s arrival, the South Dakota native remained tight-lipped about her baby boy’s father. Jones told The New York Times in 2013 that the information was only her “son’s business,” explaining, “Jack Nicholson once told me: ‘You should never give your personal life away, otherwise people will pick you apart. They’ll never believe in your character.’”
The Golden Globe nominee, who previously dated Ashton Kutcher in the late 1990s and Josh Groban from 2003 to 2006, told Red magazine in January 2017 that she plays both “good cop” and “bad cop” with her child.
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“I don’t want to be bad cop. But to have his respect, I have to be both,” the actress explained at the time. “I mean, I’m an emotionally immature person. I’m an actor for God’s sake. I see myself behaving like a child all the time.”
She told The Edit the following year that it was important to keep that part of her life “private,” adding, “When I was starting out, other actors advised me to keep certain things close to the vest. When you become a public figure people want to know everything about you, and then [they] pick it apart — it becomes negative. When my son asks those questions, I want him to [hear it from me]. I don’t want him to be able to Google it. … It’s just not something the public needs to know. I don’t divulge my sexual preferences.”
So far, the little one “does not give a s–t” about his mom’s fame, Jones hilariously told Us in November 2019 — unless it “works to his advantage.”
The former model said, “We were at Disneyland the other day and we’re waiting in line for like 50 minutes, and he’s like, ‘Mom! Can you get fast passes and tell everyone you’re an actress?’ I was like, ‘No! This is the deal. This is what it’s like.’ It’s part of the experience. We gotta talk. We gotta hang out.”
Keep scrolling to see what Jones has said over the years about raising Xander, from parenthood’s effect on her dating life to the surprising perks of single motherhood.
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March 2012
“It was difficult to be a working mom and just juggling all of that,” Jones exclusively told Us of returning to Mad Men six to seven weeks after Xander’s birth.
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May 2013
“I knew I would be raising my son alone,” she told The Edit. “It was something I went into knowingly, I was prepared mentally — and I was excited about it.”
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January 2017
“It’s good to have strong women around a man,” she explained to Red magazine. “To teach him to respect women. He doesn’t have a male person in his life saying, ‘don’t cry’ or ‘you throw like a girl.’ All those sh–ty things dads accidentally do. I just don’t feel I need a partner. Do I want one? Maybe. But I don’t feel unhappy or lonely. It would have to be someone so amazing that I would want to make room. Someone who would contribute to my happiness and not take away from it. I realize I have very high expectations and will probably have to compromise but my life is so full. It’s not like, ‘Aww, I wish I had a man.’ After I had Xander, I went on a couple of dates and I was like, ‘I’d rather be at home sleeping, or watching TV or hanging out with my kid.’”
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January 2018
“It limits your sex life for sure,” Jones told Violet Grey. “Because you can’t bring someone home when your kid’s coming into the room. Honestly, my son turns up in the middle of the night and asks for a massage, and then I fall asleep. I imagine that’s what marriage is like. … Sometimes I think I’d be a great hermit. But I love my time with him. Soon he won’t want to sleep in the bed at night, and I’ll be crawling into his!”
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November 2019
“I parent him by myself,” Jones exclusively told Us. “I have to balance good cop, bad cop. And it’s not always fun for me because I want to always be the fun mom. But I think at some point, it might take until he has his own kids to understand. I think he’ll appreciate that.”
Source: US Magazine
